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Guest Post 7th November 2025 Dating & Relationships
What are the best transgender dating sites for trans dating and serious relationships?

What are the best transgender dating sites for trans dating and serious relationships?

Discover the best transgender dating apps and sites for finding love, friendship, and community. From Taimi to OkCupid, here’s where trans and non-binary … Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 3rd November 2025 Dating & Relationships
What Sapphic Couples Should Know About Getting Divorced

What Sapphic Couples Should Know About Getting Divorced

Breaking down same-sex divorce in the UK - from property and parenting to pensions. Practical advice for queer couples, minus the jargon.… Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 15th October 2025 Culture
We Asked Fifty Sapphics to Spill on Their Worst Dates – It Got Messy

We Asked Fifty Sapphics to Spill on Their Worst Dates – It Got Messy

We asked fifty queer women about their worst-ever dates - and wow, they delivered. Here are our favourites.… Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 11th May 2025 Dating & Relationships
Is It OK to Fall in Love (and Lust) via Webcam?

Is It OK to Fall in Love (and Lust) via Webcam?

Is it OK to fall in love (and get off) via webcam? We dive into the highs, lows and long-distance lesbian lust of Instacams, … Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 17th March 2025 Culture
From OnlyFans to TV: How These Wives Built a Multi-Million-Dollar Queer Empire

From OnlyFans to TV: How These Wives Built a Multi-Million-Dollar Queer Empire

Alessia and Sasha, the JellyFilledGirls, share their journey from OnlyFans to mainstream TV, LGBTQ+ advocacy, and building a multi-million-dollar empire.… Read Article
Renee Denyer 14th January 2025 Dating & Relationships
Finding Your Perfect Match: A Guide to Strap-On Shopping

Finding Your Perfect Match: A Guide to Strap-On Shopping

Discover your ultimate guide to strap-on shopping! From sizing tips to strapless options, harness advice, and why lube is a must, we’ve got … Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 18th December 2024 Dating & Relationships
Dr. Tara, a Relationship and Sex Expert, Answers All of Your Questions

Dr. Tara, a Relationship and Sex Expert, Answers All of Your Questions

We went in hard on the questions for Dr. Tara. She covers tips on dating apps, parenthood, polyamory, and tackling Lesbian Bed Death.… Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 31st October 2024 Dating & Relationships
The Sex Toy Trio You Should Try Out

The Sex Toy Trio You Should Try Out

The Sex Toy Trio You Should Try Out. For a long time as a queer woman, I didn’t use sex toys. It’s … Read Article
Lauren Hurrell 31st August 2024 Dating & Relationships
How to Survive a Lesbian Breakup and Find Your True Soulmate

How to Survive a Lesbian Breakup and Find Your True Soulmate

While all relationships might share their same challenges and similarities, we can all probably admit that lesbian breakups are like no other. Enter Couple … Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 22nd April 2024 Culture
Navigating ADHD in Relationships: A Comprehensive Guide

Navigating ADHD in Relationships: A Comprehensive Guide

Are you dating someone with ADHD? Or perhaps you have been diagnosed recently with ADHD? Well, read our guide for partners.… Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 2nd April 2024 Dating & Relationships
Handling Age Gaps in Lesbian Dating and Relationships

Handling Age Gaps in Lesbian Dating and Relationships

From being at different life stages to contending with societal biases, here are some tips for making an age-gap lesbian dating and relationships work.&… Read Article
Jo Carter 19th March 2024 Dating & Relationships
Discussing Marriage and Children: Optimal Timing for Relationship Non-negotiables

Discussing Marriage and Children: Optimal Timing for Relationship Non-negotiables

Some of our guidance on when and how to have those tricky chats with your partner about marriage and kids!… Read Article
Fiona Fletcher Reid 12th March 2024 Dating & Relationships
Do Lesbians Have Better Sex Than Straight Women?

Do Lesbians Have Better Sex Than Straight Women?

How open communication, emotional intimacy, and a focus on shared pleasure are key to a fulfilling sex life for everyone, including lesbians and non-binary … Read Article
Mads 5th March 2024 Culture
How to avoid becoming codependent in your queer relationship

How to avoid becoming codependent in your queer relationship

Some psychologists and therapists propose that queer people are more susceptible to codependent relationships. We explore more in this article.… Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 4th March 2024 Culture
Should You Respond to Being Ghosted? Navigating the Silence

Should You Respond to Being Ghosted? Navigating the Silence

In the digital age, where connections are often made and maintained through screens, the phenomenon of ghosting has become increasingly common.… Read Article
Elisa Muller 6th February 2024 Culture
Are you in a Golden Retriever / Black Cat relationship?

Are you in a Golden Retriever / Black Cat relationship?

Are you a lovable, and overly friendly extrovert dating a silent, mysterious, and brooding hottie? Well, you might just be in a Golden Retriever / … Read Article
Fiona Fletcher Reid 5th February 2024 Dating & Relationships
Navigating Workplace Romance: A Guide for Keeping it Professional

Navigating Workplace Romance: A Guide for Keeping it Professional

Tips to navigate dating someone you work with, whilst making sure you stay professional. … Read Article
Fiona Fletcher Reid 27th January 2024 Dating & Relationships
Understanding Love Languages: A Guide for Lesbians & Sapphics

Understanding Love Languages: A Guide for Lesbians & Sapphics

Get to know Gary Chapman's theory behind the five love languages and how they can strengthen your queer relationship.… Read Article
Fiona Fletcher Reid 22nd January 2024 Dating & Relationships
9 Healthy and Affordable Lesbian Date Night Ideas

9 Healthy and Affordable Lesbian Date Night Ideas

Prioritising your health is one of the kindest things you can do for yourself and your partnership. Here's our list of healthy Lesbian date … Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 2nd January 2024 Dating & Relationships
Demystifying the Term: What is a Pillow Princess?

Demystifying the Term: What is a Pillow Princess?

What is a pillow princess? Explore the playful world of the 'pillow princess' in the LGBTQ+ community, where communication and charm reign supreme.… Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 20th December 2023 Dating & Relationships
Adventures In ADHD Dating: A Humourous Guide

Adventures In ADHD Dating: A Humourous Guide

Explore our humorous yet insightful guide on dating someone with ADHD, packed with tips for navigating this unique and loving relationship.… Read Article
Jo Carter 19th December 2023 Culture
Caught the Feels? How to be Friends After You’ve had Feelings

Caught the Feels? How to be Friends After You’ve had Feelings

Caught feelings? Crushes on friends can be really hard. Luckily, we have advice for you to help get your friendship back on track!… Read Article
Fiona Fletcher Reid 11th December 2023 Dating & Relationships
What is the Best Way to Bring Sex Toys into Your Relationship?

What is the Best Way to Bring Sex Toys into Your Relationship?

From conversation starters to the perfect sex toys for beginners, here's everything you need to know to spice up your sex life.… Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 30th November 2023 Culture
The Resurgence of Lesbian Chat Rooms and Forums and Why We’re Here for It

The Resurgence of Lesbian Chat Rooms and Forums and Why We’re Here for It

Here we go gays, a deep dive into the world of lesbian chat forums! Did someone say GaydarGirls? Get ready for a nostalgic trip … Read Article
Fiona Fletcher Reid 30th November 2023 Dating & Relationships
Gaslighting: What it is and how to spot it

Gaslighting: What it is and how to spot it

Understanding gaslighting and how to spot the red flags in queer relationships. … Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 14th November 2023 Dating & Relationships
Our Guide to Buying the Best Lesbian Strap-Ons

Our Guide to Buying the Best Lesbian Strap-Ons

Our guide to the best lesbian strap-ons! From sleek designs to adjustable fits, explore a world of intimate possibilities. Dive into a mix of … Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 9th November 2023 Dating & Relationships
Lesbian Kissing Tips for a Fun Time

Lesbian Kissing Tips for a Fun Time

Guide to lesbian kissing tips! Explore the art of seduction, from setting the mood to playful techniques that'll leave you and your partner breathless. … Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 10th October 2023 Dating & Relationships
We Chat with the Founder of Club Labrys, a New Women’s Sex Party in London

We Chat with the Founder of Club Labrys, a New Women’s Sex Party in London

Find out about Club Labrys, who's next event is taking place this Friday 13th Oct. … Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 19th September 2023 Dating & Relationships
What is Lesbian Bed Death, and how to prevent it

What is Lesbian Bed Death, and how to prevent it

Lesbian Bed Death is a myth that has been around for centuries. Read all about it, and how to prevent it.… Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 1st September 2023 Dating & Relationships
Are sex toys for everyone? A women’s guide

Are sex toys for everyone? A women’s guide

Sex toys are a multi-billion-dollar industry. And, with these adult products easily obtained through high-street stores and online, you may ask, “Are sex toys … Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 20th July 2023 Culture
Lesbian Pickup Lines

Lesbian Pickup Lines

So, we asked 70 lesbians and bisexual women the funniest pickup lines that have been said to them either on a night out or via … Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 23rd May 2023 Culture
Finding Someone To Accept Your Kinks: A Practical Guide For Modern Singles

Finding Someone To Accept Your Kinks: A Practical Guide For Modern Singles

A guide of practical tips for modern single queers seeking like-minded partners to engage in safe, satisfying, and fun sexual activities.… Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 13th December 2022 Culture
14 Best Free Lesbian Dating Apps & Sites in the UK

14 Best Free Lesbian Dating Apps & Sites in the UK

Our list of The best free lesbian dating apps & sites in the UK right now. Date away my pretties.… Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 13th May 2022 Dating & Relationships
Interview: Ky Hoyle, Founder of Sex Shop Sh!

Interview: Ky Hoyle, Founder of Sex Shop Sh!

"Everything was dick shaped, because all women's pleasure is at the end of a dick." says Hoyle, on visiting a male-aimed sex shop, conjuring … Read Article
Maedbh Pierce 30th November 2021 Dating & Relationships
Lex: The App Queering Up  …  Everything.

Lex: The App Queering Up … Everything.

Lex draws past and future together, curating a now in which we are wholly connected, to the elders before us, to the babes rising.&… Read Article
Emma Alice Jane 6th April 2021 Culture
Drama-free lesbian relationship advice

Drama-free lesbian relationship advice

We are officially canceling dramatic relationships. The last thing a relationship should be is exhausting, and if there is too much drama happening behind … Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 24th February 2021 Dating & Relationships
Why Hinge app is ‘the relationship app’ for lesbians and bi women

Why Hinge app is ‘the relationship app’ for lesbians and bi women

We trialled it ... and it's good. Read about why you should check out Hinge to secure your next date...… Read Article
Maz Foster-Reed 16th January 2021 Dating & Relationships
Indoor Date Night Ideas

Indoor Date Night Ideas

Are you and your gf looking to switch things up a little? With the pandemic doing a one-eighty on many of our lives, it’… Read Article
Maz Foster-Reed 26th October 2020 Dating & Relationships
6 Dating Apps for Bisexual Women

6 Dating Apps for Bisexual Women

Are you a bisexual women but you don't know where to start when it comes to dating? Well, we have the best dating apps … Read Article
Nonchalant Magazine 18th April 2020 Dating & Relationships
The Best Lesbian Sex Positions

The Best Lesbian Sex Positions

Our guide to the most tantalizing lesbian sex positions. We share playful moves designed for pleasure and exploration. Spice up your love life with … Read Article
Emma Alice Jane 28th August 2019 Culture
Long-Distance Relationship Survival Guide

Long-Distance Relationship Survival Guide

Long distance relationships notoriously suck at times, but here are five little ways you can keep that romance burning, even from a distance.… Read Article

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