Sex & Intimacy
Get ready for straight talk about sex, dating, and relationships in the queer community. Whether you’re navigating the dating world or exploring new dimensions of intimacy, we’ve got you covered with expert tips, real-life stories, and unfiltered advice from industry professionals. From dating hacks, new dating apps to sex-positive insights, this is the space to get the guidance you need—without the fluff.
This is an 18+ section of the site.
A beginner’s guide to lesbian sex
Whether this is your first time with a woman ever, your first time with this particular woman, or you've been having sex with women … View Post
Queer women, why do we want to peg our boyfriends so badly?
I have been wanting to peg a man since I discovered gay porn on Tumblr. Now I have a boyfriend I adore, and the … View Post
10 healthy and affordable lesbian & sapphic date night ideas
Prioritising your health is one of the kindest things you can do for yourself and your partnership. Here's our list of healthy Lesbian date … View Post
We asked fifty sapphics to spill on their worst dates – It got messy
We asked fifty queer women about their worst-ever dates - and wow, they delivered. Here are our favourites.… View Post
Is It OK to Fall in Love (and Lust) via Webcam?
Is it OK to fall in love (and get off) via webcam? We dive into the highs, lows and long-distance lesbian lust of Instacams, … View Post
From OnlyFans to TV: How these wives built a multi-million-dollar queer empire
Alessia and Sasha, the JellyFilledGirls, share their journey from OnlyFans to mainstream TV, LGBTQ+ advocacy, and building a multi-million-dollar empire.… View Post
Finding your perfect match: A guide to strap-on shopping
Discover your ultimate guide to strap-on shopping! From sizing tips to strapless options, harness advice, and why lube is a must, we’ve got … View Post
Dr. Tara, a Relationship and Sex Expert, Answers All of Your Questions
We went in hard on the questions for Dr. Tara. She covers tips on dating apps, parenthood, polyamory, and tackling Lesbian Bed Death.… View Post
Why does No One Want to F*ck Anymore?: The Death of the Gen Z Libido
As you can tell by the title - I’m not f*cking. No 69s, no handies, no cheeky pub bathroom finger, nothing. I … View Post
The Sex Toy Trio You Should Try Out
The Sex Toy Trio You Should Try Out. For a long time as a queer woman, I didn’t use sex toys. It’s … View Post
How to Survive a Lesbian Breakup and Find Your True Soulmate
While all relationships might share their same challenges and similarities, we can all probably admit that lesbian breakups are like no other. Enter Couple … View Post
Navigating ADHD in Relationships: A Comprehensive Guide
Are you dating someone with ADHD? Or perhaps you have been diagnosed recently with ADHD? Well, read our guide for partners.… View Post
Age gaps in lesbian relationships – what to know and how to make it work
From being at different life stages to contending with societal biases, here are some tips for making an age-gap lesbian dating and relationships work.&… View Post
Discussing Marriage and Children: Optimal Timing for Relationship Non-negotiables
Some of our guidance on when and how to have those tricky chats with your partner about marriage and kids!… View Post
Do Lesbians Have Better Sex Than Straight Women?
How open communication, emotional intimacy, and a focus on shared pleasure are key to a fulfilling sex life for everyone, including lesbians and non-binary … View Post
How to avoid becoming codependent in your queer relationship
Some psychologists and therapists propose that queer people are more susceptible to codependent relationships. We explore more in this article.… View Post
Should You Respond to Being Ghosted? Navigating the Silence
In the digital age, where connections are often made and maintained through screens, the phenomenon of ghosting has become increasingly common.… View Post
Are you in a Golden Retriever / Black Cat relationship?
Are you a lovable, and overly friendly extrovert dating a silent, mysterious, and brooding hottie? Well, you might just be in a Golden Retriever / … View Post
Navigating Workplace Romance: A Guide for Keeping it Professional
Tips to navigate dating someone you work with, whilst making sure you stay professional. … View Post
Understanding Love Languages: A Guide for Lesbians & Sapphics
Get to know Gary Chapman's theory behind the five love languages and how they can strengthen your queer relationship.… View Post
Demystifying the Term: What is a Pillow Princess?
What is a pillow princess? Explore the playful world of the 'pillow princess' in the LGBTQ+ community, where communication and charm reign supreme.… View Post
Adventures In ADHD Dating: A Humourous Guide
Explore our humorous yet insightful guide on dating someone with ADHD, packed with tips for navigating this unique and loving relationship.… View Post
Caught the Feels? How to be Friends After You’ve had Feelings
Caught feelings? Crushes on friends can be really hard. Luckily, we have advice for you to help get your friendship back on track!… View Post
What is the Best Way to Bring Sex Toys into Your Relationship?
From conversation starters to the perfect sex toys for beginners, here's everything you need to know to spice up your sex life.… View Post
The Resurgence of Lesbian Chat Rooms and Forums and Why We’re Here for It
Here we go gays, a deep dive into the world of lesbian chat forums! Did someone say GaydarGirls? Get ready for a nostalgic trip … View Post
Gaslighting: What it is and how to spot it
Understanding gaslighting and how to spot the red flags in queer relationships. … View Post
Our guide to buying the best lesbian strap-ons
Our guide to the best lesbian strap-ons! From sleek designs to adjustable fits, explore a world of intimate possibilities. Dive into a mix of … View Post
Lesbian kissing tips for a fun time
Guide to lesbian kissing tips! Explore the art of seduction, from setting the mood to playful techniques that'll leave you and your partner breathless. … View Post
We Chat with the Founder of Club Labrys, a New Women’s Sex Party in London
Find out about Club Labrys, who's next event is taking place this Friday 13th Oct. … View Post
What is Lesbian Bed Death, and how to prevent it
Lesbian Bed Death is a myth that has been around for centuries. Read all about it, and how to prevent it.… View Post
Are sex toys for everyone? A woman’s guide
Sex toys are a multi-billion-dollar industry. And, with these adult products easily obtained through high-street stores and online, you may ask, “Are sex toys … View Post
Lesbian pickup lines
So, we asked 70 lesbians and bisexual women the funniest pickup lines that have been said to them either on a night out or via … View Post
Finding Someone To Accept Your Kinks: A Practical Guide For Modern Singles
A guide of practical tips for modern single queers seeking like-minded partners to engage in safe, satisfying, and fun sexual activities.… View Post
14 best free lesbian dating apps & sites in the UK
Our list of The best free lesbian dating apps & sites in the UK right now. Date away my pretties.… View Post
Interview: Ky Hoyle, Founder of Sex Shop Sh!
"Everything was dick shaped, because all women's pleasure is at the end of a dick." says Hoyle, on visiting a male-aimed sex shop, conjuring … View Post
Lex: The App Queering Up … Everything.
Lex draws past and future together, curating a now in which we are wholly connected, to the elders before us, to the babes rising.&… View Post
Drama-free lesbian relationship advice
We are officially canceling dramatic relationships. The last thing a relationship should be is exhausting, and if there is too much drama happening behind … View Post
Why Hinge app is ‘the relationship app’ for lesbians and bi women
We trialled it ... and it's good. Read about why you should check out Hinge to secure your next date...… View Post
Indoor Date Night Ideas
Are you and your gf looking to switch things up a little? With the pandemic doing a one-eighty on many of our lives, it’… View Post
5 dating apps for bisexual women
Are you a bisexual women but you don't know where to start when it comes to dating? Well, we have the best dating apps … View Post
Why ‘Passion Fruut’ Dating App Has Got our Attention
We downloaded the new dating app Passion Fruut. A dating app specifically for queer women. Yay. Check out our review.… View Post
The best lesbian sex positions
13 lesbian sex positions from people who've actually had the lesbian sex.… View Post
Long-Distance Relationship Survival Guide
Long distance relationships notoriously suck at times, but here are five little ways you can keep that romance burning, even from a distance.… View Post
