North London does alcohol-free dates with confidence. Think: leafy routes, excellent cinema seats, and food good enough that nobody’s mentally mourning a bottle of red. You’ll still get the “this feels like a real date” effect, just without the next-day fog.
Vibe: Soft lighting, big coats, long chats (no booze)
Area: Crouch End → Parkland Walk → Highbury → Muswell Hill
Best For: the ‘we are comfortable going to the cinema together’ stage
Budget: ££
Length: 5–7 hours
The Day Thing
Coffee Stop at ArtHouse Café (Crouch End)
ArtHouse works because it’s low-effort in the best way. It’s part of the cinema, but the café isn’t just a holding pen for people waiting for a screening; it’s a proper place to sit, talk, and settle in without feeling like you’ve booked something “datey.”
Price: £
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The Afternoon Thing
Everyman Muswell Hill
If you want the date to feel like an occasion without relying on alcohol, cinema is an easy win, and Everyman Muswell Hill is set up for exactly that. You get the comfort factor (sofa seating, decent legroom, no elbows-in-your-ribs situation), plus the option to order food.
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The space itself has got that slightly old-school, art-deco vibe that feels a bit more special than a standard multiplex, without being overly try-hard.
Price: ££
The Dinner Thing
Farang (Highbury Park)
This is where you lock it in. Farang is modern Thai, full of bold flavours, and it’s the kind of meal that makes the whole night feel elevated, even if you’re drinking sparkling water like it’s champagne. Also: it’s properly respected (Michelin Guide listing), so you’ll both feel like you’ve earned your dinner reservation.
Price: ££–£££
Wrap-Up / Bonus Round
Parliament Hill viewpoint (Hampstead Heath)
If you want a final “walk and talk” moment (the one that either seals the deal or lets you part ways gracefully), go for the skyline view. Parliament Hill is one of London’s highest natural points, and it gives the date a neat ending without forcing anything.
Price: Free
See you next time for the next instalment of The Date Edit.
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Babs heads up Logistics and Product here at Nonchalant Magazine.
